I just found this 'letter' from Lia's blog.. and I am very blessed with it; so, I want to share it to all girls in the world.. Take your time to read it; it is worth.. To God be the glory! :)
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Dear Girls,
There are two kinds of men: Godly men, and worldly men.
What kind of man do you want?
I’m betting most of you said “a Godly man.”
Someday, you want to marry a man who loves God with every fiber of
his being
because he will be an excellent husband and father.
He will honor and be true only to you.
Most women want a Godly man or at least think they do.
Well, I think I have found a way to tell you exactly what kind of guy
you will get.
I don’t even have to know you! All I have to do is look at
you.
The kind of guy you want or will get is advertised by the clothing
you wear.
I know what men want.
Trust me, I am a guy. I know more guys than you do and I know them better.
Trust me, I am a guy. I know more guys than you do and I know them better.
I know what we think, what we talk about, what we want, and what
we look for,
and it is different for each one of us depending on our
relationship with God.
I’m sure you already know this, but men were created differently
than you.
We have different desires and priorities.
Our eyes and minds react very differently to some things than
yours do.
It isn’t disgusting, perverted, or wrong; it is wonderful and
good!
It is how God made us. It’s how we handle these
differences that separate a Godly man from a worldly man.
A worldly man doesn’t control himself, rather, he looks at
anything that attractshis attention or gets him excited. A worldly guy has
no problem when girls wear clothes that show off skin, like boxers,
high or low-cut shirts, low-rise jeans, and “cute” little swim-suits.
He’s a fan of tight-fitting shirts and pants that show off your
form, he thinks they’re fine!
Worldly guy watches a lot of TV and R-rated movies, isn’t really
offended by sexual content or nudity and secretly dabbles in pornography. He’s
a “Christian” and makes up a significant portion of your church and youth
group. He’s a really nice guy and sees you mainly for your body.
If you were to marry worldly guy, he’d bring lots of baggage into
the relationship, have intimacy problems, entertain thoughts of other women,
and possibly cheat on you.
A Godly man is in control of his drives and desires.
He constantly seeks God and reads his Bible.
He “walks in the Spirit” and isn’t set off by everything he
sees.
When immodestly-dressed girls, magazine covers, or risqué
advertisements come into view, Godly guy quickly “bounces his eyes” away from
the image.
He’s constantly guarding his thoughts and what he
allows into his mind.
He hates being around girls that disrespect him and his struggles
by wearing inappropriate attire.
Godly guy doesn’t watch much TV and is selective about the movies
he sees.
He views you as a person, knows you and respects you.
He has your best interests in mind and guards against
inappropriate thoughts of you.
If you were to marry Godly guy, he would give you the emotional
attention you need,
he would ignore other women and remain faithful to you no matter
what.
Unfortunately, there are more worldly men than Godly men.
And to make matters worse, to the untrained eye, a worldly man can
look a lot like a Godly man.
So what can you do to only attract a Godly man?
An important way of delineating between them lies in how you
dress.
As mentioned before, the clothes you wear advertise what kind of
guy you are looking for.
If you dress immodestly, you will attract worldly guys and scare
away the Godly ones.
It all comes down to the kind of man you want to spend your time
around and eventually marry.
You cannot afford to be complacent in this area of your
life!
You will pay the price someday.
This issue isn’t limited strictly to you and your future relationship.
The way you dress directly affects other men and women and their
relationships.
You don’t see the struggles, the pain, the tears and the sin that
you cause, but I can promise that you would be shocked if you did!
Ask any Christian young man; we’ve all seen it. It’s kept
hidden but it is definitely there.
By dressing immodestly, you effectually spit on the struggles of
our weaker ranks, appearing to care more about toying with us than helping
us.
You’ll never know how many broken relationships and lifestyles of
sin you’ve contributed to simply by the way you dress.
You want to marry a Godly man someday, well so do many other
women.
Don’t just help yourself and your future, help all women and their
relationships by showing discretion in your dress.
Of course, I understand the desire to look stylish, attractive,
and “cute.”
It’s important to fit in and get attention. Trust me, it can be
done modestly!
I also understand that it is easier for some girls to find stylish
and well-fitting clothes than it is for others.
This is an area where guys really don’t understand what you are up
against.
But just remember, for every sacrifice you make to honor
God with your image, Godly men are making sacrifices in their lives that are
just as hard, if not harder!
They will and do respect you so much for choosing to be
modest!
A real lady is conscientious of the image she presents, and real men
want a real lady.
And you can forget about any guys missing out on how attractive
you are because you don’t wear revealing clothing.
You could wear a circus tent and we would still know; it’s a gift
we have.
And so the question still remains:
What kind of man do you want?
Answer me with your clothes.